Thursday, July 23, 2009

Sweet dreams!

Well our little boy did great! Better than the mommy! He went down without a fuss which was very nice. Colin and I sat down with some pinot noir from Gehringer Brothers Estate Winery (our new favorite), some Lindt dark chocolate from Ecuador (another new favorite) and watched 30 Rock (also our favorite)! It was a lovely evening. We then headed for bed where I burst into tears and recounted Rupert's first moments of life as well as his time in the hospital... We prayed for our dear little boy and turned out the lights and turned the baby monitor way up :D This was not my brightest of ideas as the whole reason I wanted him to be in his own room was because his breathing was annoying me, but hearing that breathing was what was giving me peace about him being in his own room. Is it possible to be annoyed and at peace at the same time? Anyways I did get some sleep and I know it will get easier as time goes on. Rupert woke up bright and early at 6 thirty which is early for him, he's usually awake at 7 thirty or 8am. This would be why I don't have a photo of him waking up from his first full night in his own room, I was grumpy to be awoken at such an early hour... ( I know that 6 thirty is not early for some people, but after a night of fretting it felt extremely early!) I tried to get him back to sleep but it was to no avail. So I got him up but waited till his regular time for a feed, he actually waited very patiently! I also waited till his regular nap time. I thought he would be a bear by that time, but he wasn't which was very nice! I put him down for his nap... three hours later the boy woke up! Unheard of! The most he's ever napped is 2 hours... That boy needs to listen to his mommy when she tells him to go back to sleep, she knows a thing or two! Anyways, it was a very good start to the process! I'm sure he will have nights where he will wake up and be fussy, but I think he was ready to be in his big bed in his own room. Thought I would include one photo :D Our boy, doing what he does best, being extremely cute!


Wednesday, July 22, 2009

The time has come...

Operation Rupert sleeps in his big crib and his own room has begun!



Soother? Check!




Big crib? Check!


Night light? Check!



Baby monitor? Check!



Sleep right pillows? Check!



Noise maker? Check!



Baby Beluga? Check!


Tea for mommy to drink while Rupert sleeps? Check!


Sleepy baby? Check!


The time has come the walrus said to talk of many things... well not really many things.. just one thing.... Rupert sleeping in his big crib in his own room! Since his urinary tract infection/time at Children's hospital, I have been dreading this day. I have been worried that I won't be able to hear or sense if something is wrong; being as with the urinary tract infection I woke up to the sound of his weird breathing and that's how I knew something was wrong. And even though his room is right on the other side of the wall from us it feels like he's so far away and the thought of such a little baby (well I guess not that little in Rupe's case) in a big room without his mommy or daddy brings tears to my eyes even as I write this! However it's such a weird dichotomy... because on the flip side he is driving me insane with his loud breathing and rustling in the morning!!!!! It starts at about 4 thirty in the morning and goes until 7 thirty/8! He doesn't wake up, he just tosses and turns his head, kicks his feet and grunts. It wakes me up every morning and I can't get back to sleep because I am so irritated. Meanwhile, Colin, who is deaf in one ear rolls onto his good ear so he can't hear a thing... and then he starts his loud breathing and I am stuck in between two very noisy sleepers! Not fair! So anyways, it's just time for Rupert to be in his own room, he's getting too big for his "napper" in our room and I am just not getting enough sleep with his fussing in the morning. And yes I know that lack of sleep is part of being a mom and I need to just suck it up... but I'm hoping that him sleeping in his own room will help me get a bit more sleep and be a bit happier of a mommy! So my head is in a jumble between being sad/nervous that he's going to be in his own room and also glad that he's in his own room.
So... here's the plan! I'm starting with naps in his big crib/own room today! So far so good by the way.... :D And then I'm going to try tonight as well.... might as well jump right in! I know there will probably be tears on both our parts and I might not get very much sleep tonight but in the long run it will be a good thing!

2 hours later!!!!!!!!!! He's awake! yay, first nap in his big crib/own room went super well! Here's my happy little boy after his 2 hour nap in his crib!





Will keep you posted on how the night goes!

Monday, July 20, 2009

summer evenings...

This weekend saw us venturing out to Abbotsford for a much needed and desired play date with Aunty Megan and the cousins! Megan made us a delicious dinner of bbq chicken and veggies, rice and one of her classic salads. It was wonderful! She is a super woman, I can barely scrounge up dinner with one baby and she's got a baby and a toddler!
After feeding ourselves we fed the babies :D Uncle Colin entertained Halle outside with his mad water skills! Megan and I were inside with our little ones listening to screams of delight from Halle as Colin would turn the hose on and off again. We also heard Colin screaming as Halle gained control of the hose and started chasing him!
We then headed to Dairy Queen to eat some cool treats! Surprisingly Halle was not too interested in ice cream... her source of entertainment was cleaning the table with some napkins (her mother's daughter :D ) and scrounging up some floor food at which point Uncle Colin took her outside to play on the playground! Colin later told me that Halle wanted to go on the BIG slide, so he helped her up to the top and then made his way around to the bottom to catch her. He looked up at her and saw terror in her eyes. Colin said to her, "Is it too big Halle?" She looked at him and nodded, "too big, too big!" Uncle Colin to the rescue got her down and they continued to play!
We arrived home and Halle was ready for bed after an exciting evening! So off to bed she went and the two little ones rolled around on the floor kicking and squawking . Perfect time for a photo shoot right? Right! Enter Colin with the camera and Megan and Sarah the entertainers! Here are a few shots from the night.











It was such an enjoyable evening! I love summer evenings when the sun is going down and it's cooled off enough to need a light sweater but still warm enough to be outside. The sky is pink and the air smells so sweet. So nice to spend such a lovely night with some of our favorite people!
We are terribly sad to be leaving them in only a month or so... but I know that even though the water separates us they will grow up to be great friends and go on many adventures together! It will be very fun to take the ferry to go and visit Aunty Megan, Uncle Steve and the cousins!

Monday, July 13, 2009

Fish and Chips and Vinnegar



This Sunday at Church was "soccer Sunday" where the families from soccer camp are invited to the church for a service with fun loud music and a great kid friendly message. So being as it is insanely loud and there are flashing lights we decided to head out to the relaxing calm of White Rock... Crescent Beach to be exact.




So as soon as Rupert was finished his lunch we headed out... all his gear in tow.
Colin and I enjoyed some delicious fish and chips which I haven't had since before I was pregnant with Rupert, which made them even more delicious! We also had some ice cream even though it was a bit of a cooler day. Rupert watched as we ate our tasty treats with drool streaming down his face which is actually a permanent fixture lately as well as lots of bubbles!



Then off we went on our walk. Rupert decided not to sleep and to cry instead... not so relaxing... Eventually he calmed down and looked around at all the people and things passing him by. He is such a little observer! He of course fell asleep the minute the car started on the ride home. Precious little boy.